{"id":11154,"date":"2025-12-09T14:48:49","date_gmt":"2025-12-09T14:48:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.kabbalah.info\/?post_type=book&#038;p=11154"},"modified":"2026-01-25T19:05:41","modified_gmt":"2026-01-25T19:05:41","slug":"thus-you-shall-say-to-the-house-of-jacob","status":"publish","type":"book","link":"https:\/\/www.kabbalah.info\/en\/thus-you-shall-say-to-the-house-of-jacob\/","title":{"rendered":"14. Thus You Shall Say to the House of Jacob"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u201cThus you shall say to the house of Jacob\u201d are the women; tell them the matters in general, for they can listen; \u201cand tell the sons of Israel\u201d are the men. He told him, \u201cTell them the precisions of the matters, for they can listen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another explanation: Why to the women first? For they hurry with&nbsp;<em>Mitzvot<\/em>&nbsp;[commandments]. Another explanation: Why to the women? So they will lead their sons to the Torah.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rabbi Tachlifa deKeisarin said, \u201cThe Creator said, \u2018When I created the world, I commanded only&nbsp;<em>Adam HaRishon<\/em>. Afterward, Eve was commanded, and she transgressed and corrupted the world. Now, if I do not call the women first, they will cancel the Torah.\u2019\u201d This is why it was said, \u201cThus you shall say to the house of Jacob.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We should understand the following:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1) Why do women hurry with&nbsp;<em>Mitzvot<\/em>&nbsp;more than men?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2) Why should women be addressed first so they will lead their sons to the Torah? If the men are approached before them, will they not agree to lead their sons to the Torah?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3) It is as though He is afraid of the women, that they might spoil the world unless He gives them the honor of preceding the men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4) How can it be said that because of the honor that the Creator gave when he commanded&nbsp;<em>Adam HaRishon<\/em>&nbsp;before Eve, she transgressed and corrupted the world? It is as though Eve avenged it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the work, we can interpret that man and woman are within the same person. When one works in order to receive and satisfy his own lack, meaning his femaleness, a person is called \u201cwoman.\u201d When he acts in order to bestow, he is called a \u201cman.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is known that man is but a desire to receive. The order of the beginning of the work is that we start with the will to receive, which is called&nbsp;<em>Lo<\/em>&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>&nbsp;[not for Her sake], and afterward we come to&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>&nbsp;[for Her sake].<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Therefore, the order, \u201cThus you shall say to the house of Jacob,\u201d are the women. \u201cTell them the matters in general,\u201d meaning the beginning of the work, when He forbade them to say that we must work&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>&nbsp;because a person cannot begin with&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Afterward, \u201cand tell the sons of Israel\u201d are the men, who can already work&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>, meaning to bestow. \u201cTell them the precisions of the matters, for they can listen,\u201d meaning that they can already hear about&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>&nbsp;and should already be meticulous that everything will be only&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>. This is the meaning of \u201cthe precisions of the matters.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAnother explanation: Why to the women first? For they hurry with&nbsp;<em>Mitzvot<\/em>,\u201d meaning in&nbsp;<em>Lo<\/em>&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>. When one\u2019s intention is to receive reward in return for his work, the body rushes the person. Conversely, the body does not agree that a person will work in order to bestow, and will certainly not rush him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hence, when a person begins the work in order to receive, he accustoms himself to be quick in the work, and later he can use this habit when he begins to work in order to bestow, as well, since he has already acquired the tool of quickness at the time of&nbsp;<em>Lo<\/em>&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAnother explanation: So they will lead their sons to the Torah.\u201d Father and son are cause and consequence. That is, if first there is a cause for reception, this reason causes him to want to do more things in Torah and&nbsp;<em>Mitzvot<\/em>. But in bestowal, it is hard for the body to make efforts to add. Rather, each time requires a new overcoming. Conversely,&nbsp;<em>Lo<\/em>&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>&nbsp;constantly gives more power to add.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By a person being accustomed to work during the preparation period, he already has tools that are ready for work while he marches on the path of bestowal. At the time of the creation of the world,&nbsp;<em>Adam HaRishon<\/em>&nbsp;was commanded first. This is according to what&nbsp;<em>The Zohar<\/em>&nbsp;wrote, that&nbsp;<em>Adam HaRishon<\/em>&nbsp;had nothing of this world, meaning he was devoid of any reception whatsoever; he was only&nbsp;<em>VAK<\/em>, in the quality of the upper nine (see \u201cIntroduction to the Book Panim Meirot uMasbirot\u201d).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In that respect, everything was fine. However, through his mingling with the will to receive, called Eve, since he did not have the preparation of&nbsp;<em>Lo<\/em>&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>&nbsp;for reception\u2014since only then can one bring in the will to receive so it is reception in order to bestow\u2014so when he approached the will to receive, called \u201cwoman,\u201d and he already attained the&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>&nbsp;on his own quality, for his root is vessels of bestowal, she therefore transgressed and corrupted the world, since she lacked the practice in&nbsp;<em>Lo Lishma<\/em>&nbsp;on the will to receive, as Maimonides wrote, that the matter of&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>&nbsp;must not be revealed at once, but gradually.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Therefore, when he revealed the&nbsp;<em>Lishma<\/em>&nbsp;to the woman, she immediately transgressed and corrupted the world. 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