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That is, everything he does, he sees that it is not alright because his intention while doing the good deeds is not the real intention. For this reason, he always sees that others are better than him because their actions are fine, and about his, he thinks the opposite. At that time, he can make an honest prayer about his situation, that he is in such lowliness.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>December 1983 Hard on himself and easy on others. 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