{"id":12455,"date":"2025-12-16T20:53:48","date_gmt":"2025-12-16T20:53:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.kabbalah.info\/?post_type=book&#038;p=12455"},"modified":"2025-12-16T20:53:48","modified_gmt":"2025-12-16T20:53:48","slug":"if-a-woman-inseminates-1","status":"publish","type":"book","link":"https:\/\/www.kabbalah.info\/en\/if-a-woman-inseminates-1\/","title":{"rendered":"402. If a Woman Inseminates \u2013 1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>April 24, 1971<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIf a woman inseminates. We learned that \u2018A woman who inseminates first, delivers a male child.\u2019 Rabbi Aha said, \u2018We learned that the Creator sentences whether a drop will be a male or a female, and you say, \u2018A woman who inseminates first, delivers a male child.\u2019 Rabbi Yosi said, \u2018Of course the Creator discerns between a drop of a male and a drop of a female. And because He has discerned it, He sentences whether it will be a male or a female\u2019\u201d (<em>The Zohar<\/em>,&nbsp;<em>Tazria<\/em>, Item 9).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The question is, if a woman who inseminates first delivers a male child, then we no longer need the Creator\u2019s sentence. But Rabbi Yosi explains that of course the Creator discerns it, and because He discerned it, He sentenced it. Yet, the explanation provides no clarification.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The&nbsp;<em>Sulam<\/em>&nbsp;[Ladder commentary on&nbsp;<em>The Zohar<\/em>] interprets that there are three partners in a person: the Creator, his father, and his mother. His father gives the white in him; his mother, the red in him, and the Creator gives the soul. This discernment, that the Creator discerns in the drop\u2014that it is worthy of the soul of a male or a female, is regarded as sentencing, for had He not discerned it and did not send a soul of a male, the drop would not have been determined to be a male.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We should understand this in the work. \u201cSowing\u201d means we take something and place it in the ground, where it strikes roots and then some being emerges from it. Hence, when a woman inseminates first, it means that a person places in the ground the will to receive, regarded as a female, and a male emerges from it, meaning that he is rewarded with the desire to bestow, which is called \u201ca male.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hence, Rabbi Aha\u2019s question was that if this depends on man\u2019s work, meaning on an awakening from below, then what we learned\u2014that the Creator discerns the drop and sentences\u2014what is this sentencing if the matter is determined by man\u2019s work below?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The&nbsp;<em>Sulam<\/em>&nbsp;interprets about this that there are three partners in a person. His father gives the white. That is, the discernment of father and mother is the thought, which is regarded as \u201cparents\u201d who engender the action. The father is his power of bestowal, which is the male, who gives the white, meaning whitens himself from being a receiver, removing from himself the will to receive. It follows that he is regarded as cleansed and that then he becomes truly as dust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the meaning of \u201cMy soul will be as dust to all.\u201d That is, with regard to everything that is in the world, he is regarded as dust, meaning he has no need or desire, but he is annulled truly as dust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The mother gives the&nbsp;<em>Odem<\/em>&nbsp;[red], as in&nbsp;<em>Adameh<\/em>&nbsp;[I will be like]&nbsp;<em>LaElyon<\/em>&nbsp;[the upper one], meaning she wants to be a giver.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We can discern in this that the quality of whiteness means \u201cTurn away from evil,\u201d and the red of the mother is regarded as \u201cand do good.\u201d \u201cGood\u201d means the quality of giving, as it is written, \u201cMy heart overflows with a good thing; I say, \u2018My work is for the King,\u2019\u201d meaning he wants to perform acts of bestowal upon the King.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But all this is only in potential, by coercion, since the body disagrees with all those things that are against the will to receive. Thus, all that he does has no spirit and vitality until the Creator sentences the drop and sends a soul of a male. Then he obtains the flavor of the desire to bestow, and all that he does contains spirit and vitality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It follows that although from the perspective of the awakening from below, everything is as it should be, the soul is still missing. This is regarded as \u201cHe who comes to purify is aided.\u201d&nbsp;<em>The Zohar<\/em>&nbsp;asks, \u201cWith what?\u201d and it replies, \u201cWith a holy soul.\u201d This is the meaning of the Creator discerning which drop has the quality of male or that of a female.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is as Baal HaSulam interpreted what Maimonides says (<em>Hilchot Teshuva<\/em>), \u201cUntil He who knows the mysteries testifies to him,\u201d he asked if it was possible for man to rise up and ask the Creator so his repentance will be worthy and acceptable, and he explained that when a person\u2019s work is correct, he is rewarded with the revelation of the face, which is the attainment of the matter of reward and punishment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In other words, he feels the wonderful delight while observing the&nbsp;<em>Mitzva<\/em>&nbsp;[commandment] and feels the affliction of a transgression. This is regarded that then His salvation, namely the revelation of the face, testifies to him that he will not sin. This is regarded as the one who knows the mysteries testifying that he will not sin, and by this we should interpret that the Creator sentences and gives him the soul of a male.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Accordingly, we can interpret that the Creator discerns whether the drop is a male, meaning that his repentance is worthy and good, and then the Creator testifies to him and sends him a soul. This is regarded as sentencing, from the word \u201cdecree\u201d [in Hebrew], when he has no other choice but to walk on the straight path because of the revelation of the face with which he was rewarded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or He sends him a soul of a female, receiving and not giving. That is, it is intermittent, at times receiving an awakening from above, but then it departs. This is called \u201ca lack,\u201d from the word \u201cfemale,\u201d which is incomplete because it cannot be permanent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Conversely, a soul of a male always extends a soul and vitality when he performs a&nbsp;<em>Mitzva<\/em>, since he has already been rewarded with the testimony of the Creator that \u201che will not return to folly.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By this we can interpret the verse, \u201cThere is the sea, great and broad, in which are swarms innumerable, animals both small and great. How many are Your works, Lord, in wisdom You have made them all; the earth is full of Your possessions.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cHow many are Your works, Lord\u201d refers to the whole of creation. \u201cIn wisdom You have made them all\u201d means that the intention of creation is to do good to His creations, called \u201cwisdom.\u201d \u201cThe earth is full of Your possessions\u201d means that there are many discernments in the world. \u201cThis is the sea, great\u201d refers to the sea of wisdom. \u201c\u2026and broad\u201d refers to light of&nbsp;<em>Hassadim<\/em>, called \u201cexpansion.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Remes<\/em>&nbsp;[swarms] from the word&nbsp;<em>Ramsa<\/em>, which is \u201cnight\u201d [in Aramaic]. \u201cInnumerable\u201d means that they do not shine. \u201cAnimals both small and great\u201d means there are many kinds of animals, the quality of&nbsp;<em>Katnut<\/em>&nbsp;[smallness\/infancy] and the quality of&nbsp;<em>Gadlut<\/em>&nbsp;[greatness\/adulthood].<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>April 24, 1971 \u201cIf a woman inseminates. 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