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From War To Brotherly Love<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Aharei Mot<\/em> [After the Death]<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

65) How good and how pleasant. These are the friends, as they sit together inseparably. At first, they seem like people at war, wishing to kill each other. Then they revert back to a state of brotherly love. The Creator, what does He say about them? \u201cHow good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity.\u201d The word, \u201ctogether\u201d indicates the presence of Divinity with them. Moreover, the Creator listens to their words and He is pleased and content with them. This is the meaning of the words, \u201cThen those who feared the Lord spoke to one another, and the Lord listened and heard it, and a book of remembrance was written before Him.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

66) And you, the friends who are here, as you were in fondness and love before, you will not part henceforth, until the Creator rejoices with you and summons peace upon you. And by your merit, there will be peace in the world. This is the meaning of the words, \u201cFor the sake of my brothers and my friends let me say, \u2018Let peace be in you.\u2019\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Love of Friends<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Ki Tissa <\/em>[When You Take]<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

54) All those friends, who do not love each other, depart the world before their time. All the friends in Rashbi\u2019s time had love of soul and love of spirit among them. This is why in his generation, the secrets of Torah were revealed. Rabbi Shimon would say, \u201cAll the friends who do not love each other cause themselves to stray from the right path. Moreover, they put a blemish in the Torah, since there is love, brotherhood, and truth in the Torah. Abraham loved Isaac; Isaac loved Abraham; and they were embraced. And they were both gripping Jacob with love and brotherhood, and were giving their spirits in one another. The friends should be like them, and not blemish them, for if love is lacking in them, they will blemish their value above, that is, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, which are HGT<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

New Zohar<\/em>, Hukot<\/em> [statutes]<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

107) \u201cHow good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together.\u201d Dwelling together means bonding of the brother, Zeir Anpin<\/em>, with Tzedek<\/em> [justice], Malchut<\/em>. \u201cAlso\u201d [the word appears only in the Hebrew text] comes to include Israel, who are the assembly for this unification.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Revealing the Secrets of Torah\u2014to Friends<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Pinhas<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

709) These words are unclear and need to be explained for the friends, for one who closes before them the secrets of the Torah pains them. For the wicked, the lights of the secrets become darkness to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is like concealed money. For one who digs until he finds it, and it is not his, it turns in his mind into darkness and gloom. But for the one that it is his, it shines. This is the reason why one should reveal the hidden secrets of Torah to the friends.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dwelling in a Place of Men of Action<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Bo<\/em> [Come unto Pharaoh]<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

138) For this reason, one should always dwell only in a place where men of action dwell, since woe unto one who dwells among the wicked, for he is caught for their transgression. And if one dwells among the righteous, he is rewarded for their merit.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Parting from the Wicked<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

VaEra<\/em> [And I Appeared]<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

176) When the friends are on the way, they should go with one heart. If there are wicked ones walking among them or people who are not from the King\u2019s palace, they should part them, as it is written, \u201cBut My servant Caleb, because he had another spirit with him,\u201d meaning that he separated from the spies, as it is written, \u201cAnd they went up into the South, and came unto Hebron.\u201d It should have said \u201ccame\u201d in plural form. But because he parted with the spies and came to Hebron alone to visit the graves of the fathers, it writes \u201ccame\u201d in singular form.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Drilling a Hole in the Boat<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Nasso<\/em> [Take]<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

18) Anyone who clings to the Creator and keeps the commandments of the Torah seemingly sustains the worlds\u2014the world above and the world below, as it is written, \u201cAnd do them.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

19) And anyone who breaches the commandments of the Torah seemingly blemishes above, blemishes below, blemishes himself, and blemishes all the worlds. There is an allegory about sailors who were sailing in a boat. One fool among them rose and wished to puncture the boat. His friend told him, \u201cWhy are you puncturing the boat?\u201d He replied, \u201cWhy should you care? I am drilling under me!\u201d He told him, \u201cBut we are both drowning in the boat together!\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Friends Who Engage in Torah Are Protected<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

VaEtchanan<\/em> [I Pleaded]<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

32) In all of one\u2019s actions, he should see the Creator before him. Anyone who is walking along the road, who fears robbers, should aim for three things\u2014a gift, a prayer, and a war\u2014as did Jacob when he feared Esau. However, the most important of them is the prayer. But even though prayer is the most important, two or three friends engaging in words of Torah is the most important of all, for they do not fear robbers because Divinity is connected to them, for they are engaged in Torah.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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